A lot of people think that having a baby will bring them immediate fulfilment and happiness, but quite often you find that you feel very different from your expectations and life as a new parent is not as you hoped.
Baby’s arrived and now you’re wondering why you’re not happy, it’s not happy, it’s not feeding and it’s crying non stop. You’re wondering what you’ve done wrong, if you’re not cut out to be a mum or that even worse, you’re a bad mum! Its none of these things. Having a baby is a wonderful achievement, but life after birth is very different and it takes time to adjust and settle down.